Have you ever walked through a huge life shift—a major breakup, the end of a long career, or a loss that felt like it completely knocked the wind out of you? I’ve been right where you are. When I faced my own experience with loss and the sheer terror of change, I spent a long time just shuffling sideways before I finally plucked up the courage to take the leap. I know that exact space where your whole world feels completely altered, and the old, familiar 9-to-5 humdrum routine just doesn’t fit anymore. But here’s the secret nobody tells you about those big life shake-ups: they are usually the universe’s…